This sweet pup loves to hold hands and snuggle. Loads of posts to catch up on here at AshandPrairie, but for now, a pic of a puppy.
Hey Ash Street — clearly this needs to be our November challenge: Partying like it’s 1789!
Well, dear Ash Street, I woke up this morning to discover Barclay had had a bout of diarrhea last night, sometime between 12:30am when he went out for the last time, and 7:30am this morning which is when he typically is let out. It’s the first time he’s done that since we’ve had him and gauging by its consistency, the poor fella REALLY. HAD. TO. GO. at some point in the middle of the night.
Why this level of detail, you may ask??? Well, I know YOU aren’t asking since one of our mutual loves is sharing our scatalogical insights via the very handy poop emoji. But more importantly, for you readers out there, I share because it struck me as I was cleaning it up this morning, that it is a perfect metaphor…the ultimate symbol, so to speak…for dumping (ahem) the news of our October challenge!
A couple of weeks ago, as we basked in the glory of our successful pantry challenge, Ash Street noted that her grocery bill had dramatically dropped over those four weeks. And while our original challenge, which was to cook from Hettie Mackinnon’s “From Asia With Love” remains in effect, we decided to layer a slightly more difficult, more competitive edge to the October challenge, in which we wrestle with our spending habits to see which of us can spend the LEAST this month!
Here are the rules: 1) The challenge runs the full month of October BUT we are each allowed to exempt a 7-day stretch during that time since we both have a trip planned during the month. 2) We track all individual expenses EXCEPT recurring payments for things such as the mortgage, car insurance, etc. Basically, this is an exercise in reining in discretionary spending rather than fixed items on the monthly tally. 3) At the end of the month we share our spreadsheets with the one another and our enormous, invested readership!
The stakes are high. If I win, Ash Street ferments me a (hopefully VERY. LARGE. JAR) of the pickles of my choice. I’m already debating between these Italian mushrooms she makes which are insanely delicious OR these certain specific Korean pickles I adore. If Ash Street wins, I supply her with a batch of her favorite marinated artichokes from Costco.
I’m feeling punny this morning so I hereby proclaim this challenge “The October Cent-sation”!!! Ash Street: whadya think???
xoxo, Prairie Ave
Dearest Prairie Ave,
I see your paraedoliac metaphor and fully approve of its use! That is a truly foul thing to wake up to. Poor Barclay, poor you!
Of course, in gearing up for this October challenge, I’ve already felt a panicked urge to purchase things I think I “need”. Was I on the Tennis Express website last night looking for any last minute finds? Indeed, indeed I was. But I stopped myself, I reigned it in and embraced this challenge a whole day early (crown me victorious already!). Now I do have to admit, and this was not by design, that I grocery shopped yesterday. We agreed to not “stock up” before this challenge, but as I was still dating someone in Atlanta after summer, I got into the habit of grocery shopping there every weekend and so fell into the natural rhythm of shopping at a week’s end. I tried not to fully stock my fridge yesterday, but it’s fairly well supplied.
This past week, I poured through my budget spreadsheet of the past year to see what I could possibly cut. Where’s the extra fat? Well, the A-word comes to mind, and that’s going to be a particularly difficult part of this month. Friends ask me out for drinks! But a couple of beers out here, and there, and it really adds up. So this will not only be a good money saving challenge, but good for the ole liver as well. I love this challenge because while stakes appear low (a jar of artichokes or pickles?!), we know how high they really are! Two qualities that bind us together: a) we’re fiercely competitive (how many HOURS did we play jazzminton in the Florida pool?!) and b) we can both be very cheap if need be. (We can also blow a wod of cash like there’s no tomorrow) I do fear what this challenge portends for November, when we’re cut loose.
I know how much you love those Italian mushrooms, and those Korean pickles. It must be so sad knowing that you won’t be getting them any time soon;) Game ON Prairie Ave! Game. ON.
xoxo, Ash St
Dear Prairie Ave,
Well, it’s been five weeks since we started this Clear The Pantry challenge. And I have to report, I’ve gone over….extended to a fifth week. Because that’s how bad things were. I know the photo can’t capture it, because I forgot to take the before pic (actually, my phone ran out of space and the photo was deleted. Look. You know how bad I am at technology). Here’s what I learned….
I also had a “save for later” (why?!) item. The bluegrass soy sauce that you got for me, what, a year ago? Two? Well it’s fantastic! And I’ve been gobbling it up in recipes like sprouted mung bean and fried tofu stir fry, tahini dressings, smashed cucumber salads, and many more. It’s deep, this one, and I love it.
I remember you saying sometime long ago that I was “preternaturally averse” to carbs. Well I am. Unless I’m running tons of miles. So I had a lot of flours and other carbs to go through in my pantry. I made chickpea crepes, farro for salads, cornbread, and pasta. PASTA! Me! That was actually delightful. It’s high summer here in the south and so I made a special little pasta dish with an italian mushroom toast as a side. I’ve made this a bunch. You just have to figure out the proportions but it’s divine: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/31/magazine/how-to-cook-all-the-mushrooms.html
What, dear friend, is our next challenge? We just did something global, so let’s do something specific.
Ash Street South
Dear Ash Street South,
This challenge was so much fun! I agree – week five was easy to complete as an add-on week because even now, there is still an entire shelf of untouched, unopened items. And because I love lists and categories, I’ve distilled the process by which our pantry items accumulate into three separate categories: 1) As you mentioned, there are specialty items you buy for a dish or two but after making that dish, you have a surfeit of that particular item leftover and it takes a long while to use it. For you, the carbs. For me (and also for you LOL), is the seven different vinegars all currently in various stages of completion.
2) The special “save for special occasion” category. That bluegrass soy sauce you mentioned finally using? I have TWO bottles of it waiting…untouched. Why? Because the bottles are so cute and small and only available for purchase in one, remote, out-of-the-way place that it got marked in my mind as “special” and therefore I keep saving it for a “special” occasion. Same with those tiny jars of goat milk caramel. It’s so tasty that we now have a stockpile of it that we can’t seem to open and consume because it’s so special. Even this past month those jars were not cracked! But that inclination leads me to category #3, which is the category I find difficult to combat.
3) Fear of deprivation and “running out.” While I cognitively understand that I will not run out of food and I will not starve, my lizard brain fears both of those things. And so the freezer stock ups and pantry fill-ups are a way to stave off the feeling that someday, at some point, I might run out of some thing that I want, and that is going to feel really shitty. And so the extra bottles of mustard and ketchup, artichokes, canned tomatoes, oyster sauce. All that lives on the top shelf, unopened, waiting the day they get to take center stage in a meal. Because dammit, when I need more bbq sauce PRONTO, I can just reach up there, grab my spare molasses, ketchup, mustard, and apple cider vinegar and not miss a beat! Relief for future self not experiencing perceived deprivation of homemade bbq sauce!
But that fear of loss really bumps up against another really pleasing feeling, and that is of open space, minimalism, and order. And so over the past month, as I finished items, consolidated others, and gradually watched as the space in my pantry gave way to clean, organized shelves, that feeling of aesthetic pleasure at its minimalism sat cheek-to-jowl with a latent internal doomsday clock. And I had to sit with it and remind myself: no one is going to starve. I can have a pantry filled to the brim in less than an hour if I run to the store. With all the abundance and choice and availability of things, the hardest thing to do is remind my lizard brain that there is abundance, choice, and availability and I don’t need to store things up like a squirrel ferreting its nut collection in spots in preparation for a hard winter.
Hmmm…so next monthly challenge. Min wants to do a “No Restaurants October” which since you and I both rarely eat out anyways, I don’t think will be too hard to implement. What if we each had to cook 3 new recipes from the Hettie Mackinnon cookbook in the month of October and write up a report of each? I am very guilty of loving the reading of cookbooks but rarely cooking out of them so this might be a good push for me!
Dear Prairie Ave,
Let’s have a little cross-country chat. You know I love a good food challenge. How many have we had over the years? I’d returned from a summer away in the mountains, and the thing I miss most during summers is being in my kitchen. Especially backpacking so many miles, I spend a lot of time dreaming of food and dreaming up recipes.
This year, I returned home to a worrisome state. The left front bracket of my oil and vinegar shelf (yes, I have a massive shelf dedicated to just these things) was bending under the weight of its contents. And my catch-all snack drawer? Abysmal. An embarrassment. I tidied up a bit but that wasn’t going to do the trick. So I sent out a clarion call, a charge to us both….A four week food challenge!……buy no packaged goods, only fresh foods (and for me tofu and tempeh), and start whittling away at those bottles, boxes, and packages. The A-sha noodles that have been sitting in there for over a year? They will be eaten. The 200 year old ¼ cup of panko bread crumbs on the shelf? Gone! The shiro mitten that’s sat for 6 months after an inspired late night, online purchase? An Ethiopian feast is imminent! One of the things I love about this challenge is that it’s forced me to think out of the box, to use ingredients that aren’t my normal go-tos and to make them central to what I’m cooking. Last night I needed to make spicy vegan mayo but I’m out of store bought mayo. So I did my research and found an amazing spicy vegan mayo recipe on the Korean Vegan (https://thekoreanvegan.com/spicy-vegan-mayo/ ) that rocked! It’s been two weeks now and in that time, my grocery bill has been almost halved and I’m nearly to the point where I can open my pantry door in the presence of others without dying of shame. I mean, the near existential dread of running out of a spice or an ingredient still simmers under the surface, but so far, this has been a great challenge for a little fall cleaning. How’s it been going for you, dear friend?
Dear Ash Street,
Your pantry challenge could not have come at a better time! After weeks of traveling that included a stay at an Airbnb where a pantry shelf came crashing down, and another Airbnb where I threw out a collection of spice jars that expired in 2013, I returned home with gimlet eyes and a clear mission: expired, dated pantry items might be okay in an Airbnb, but not in MY house dammit!
It has been super satisfying seeing the space in the pantry grow. Bean and ham soup last week, and black bean chili this week have (mostly) cleared out the bean stash that was lying there stagnant. Baked two loaves of bread to finish off some all purpose flour that was getting old. Made arancini balls for the first time ever to finally use up two opened and half-used bags of panko (what is it with us and panko?!?). And my big pet peeve is when two or more items in the same category are open and half-used (like the aforementioned panko) because what that usually means is that the pantry was too chaotic for me to realize I already had one open and stuffed in the back somewhere so thus bought a new one and opened THAT one, thereby adding to the chaos! So I have consolidated balsamic vinegars, red wine vinegars, and furikake and now my bottom shelf is looking neat and organized!
I also have used up some specialty items I had been “saving” and thus made some pleasant discoveries — like the Smoked Bourbon salt rub I picked up in Louisville…two years ago…is really tasty! I put it on grilled steak and loved it. So now I know it can enter the regular spice rotation since it will get used.
I’m viewing the freezer and fridge as an extension of the pantry, and so that half-finished jar of artichokes — gone! The bag of frozen cilantro — used! Next up are two open, half-used bags of polenta. It will feel very satisfying to make something with those. Like…why do I have one opened bag of polenta, let alone two?!?
You know, we should have done before/after pictures! Since we’re midway through the challenge, how about we post pictures of the after?
Thanks for this idea, Ash Street!!!
Crispy, double-dipped chicken tenders with garlic parmesan sauce! Another recipe I was initially doubtful about, but the results spoke for themselves. Probably the best fried chicken we’ve made so far!
We took an impromptu roadtrip to DC over Memorial Day weekend and although it wasn’t the main purpose behind the trip, we did stuff ourselves full of tasty treats throughout, like fresh handmade pasta at Sfoglina Pasta House, crackling baguette sandwiches from Bread Furst, an icy cold frosé/margarita blend at Tonic and coffee and snacks at Little Red Fox. But by far and away our favorite stop was at Bete for Ethiopian in Silver Springs, MD. It’s something we don’t have easy access to in these here parts and I feel like I am in a constant state of longing for injera and misir wot after leaving my beloved Ethiopian Diamond back in Chicago those many moons ago. Upon our return to the non-Chicago Middle West, I’ve been fermenting a bowl of teff and have ordered a big shiny silver platter to spread my homemade injera on. If all goes well, I’m hoping I’ll have some pictures to share!